Blog Tip: Blog Commenting - Do's & Dont's

  Blog commenting is a crucial part of the blogging world. Not only is it a way for the reader to feel connected to the blog/blogger that they are following, it's also another way for us Bloggers to connect with other Bloggers. While there are other means of contacting or corresponding, such as Social Media or Email, blog commenting is another way to stay connected. I have read many blogs and/or books that say commenting can be your key to gaining more readers/followers from other blogs, and I have to say that I completely agree with this. Commenting on other blogs shows your presence in this LARGE blogging world and helps create new relationships, which in turn can create life long friendships. I know that sounds silly, becoming "friends" with someone you have never met, but I have "met" many bloggers and built awesome blogging relationships just through commenting alone.

  Now with all that said, commenting can also turn off other bloggers from wanting to follow you by just your comment content. Just because that book/blog said "You need to comment to gain a following" doesn't mean you go and blow up another bloggers comment box just because. I want to share a few tips on what I feel are some basic Do's and Don'ts on blog commenting. {These are just my opinion, and from my observation as a blogger}

Do's

• Make your comments relevant to the blog post you are commenting on; compliment on what you just read and how it made you feel.
• Share a brief incident that you feel was similar to the post you read. Bloggers love to see that their readers have things in common with them. {If you feel that you have more to share with them, I would email them instead of writing a whole book in the comment feed}
• Let them know you are a new follower to their blog and/or how you found them. 
• Always make your comments feel warm and up lifting; We all want our blogging community to be a tight, supportive group.
• Be a great replier; If possible try and respond back to the comments that are left for you on your blog. Sometimes it seems like a long tedious job, but remember that these followers are commenting because they love what they just read and are showing their appreciation for your post. So even just a simple "Thank You" shows that you appreciate them.
• Comment on a regular basis; You can't expect one comment to do magic, it might feel like a daunting task but it's worth it in the long run. You can even set a day in the week where you go through your favorite blogs to catch up on the latest post and leave comments. You don't want to get burnt out on commenting either, so setting time aside for this will feel less overwhelming. 

Now of course there are some don't...

Don'ts

• Like I mentioned in the Do's about being brief in you comments (like maybe 1 maybe 2 paragraphs is good) try not to dump 5 paragraphs in a comment box. Send it in an email. Or if your comment is going to be pretty compelling, you might consider using it for a post on your own blog. Sometimes our ideas/posts are inspired by what we read on others blogs; be sure to leave a little love and link back to that source you were inspired by (and even send them the link).
• Don't gossip or air your dirty laundry on someone's comment feed; No one wants to read any negative comments about others, especially when they are not nice ones.
• Above I mentioned about stating you were a new follower; Stating you are a new follower is fine and dandy - we all love knowing we have new followers, but I personally think it should be left at that. Leaving a comment on why the blogger needs to be following your blog, for me is more of a reason why I probably wont follow back. Leave your comment that is relevant to the post, state you are a new follower (Mention where you found their blog; ie. Blog hop or Link Up), and then instead of telling them to "follow you back" or "go check out my blog now, cause I am following you", you can leave the link to your blog. A link is a nice way to still show that you have a blog that you would like them to check out without throwing it in there face and your comment sounds more genuine with out the plead for a follow back. I personally will be more inclined to check out their blog when they have left just their link and not telling me that I need to do. {Hope that doesn't come off harsh}
• Don't be a Debby Downer; That explains it self.
• If you don't have anything nice to say, well then don't comment! While there may be posts you come across that you don't entirely agree with, think before you comment. You can state your opposing opinion with out sounding offensive, but if you feel you can't contain your emotions then you probably shouldn't leave a comment or you again can write an email. No blogger really wants to receive an email that is an angry rant from a reader, but if you feel like there is something you need to say an email is better than a comment.

 There are probably a ton more Do's and Don'ts, these are just a few. I myself have been guilty of  some (not all) early on in starting my blog. I am not saying that these are the EXACT way you have to comment, these are just some tips to help you along in your blogging career. 

Xo,

Heidi

Blog Basics: How To Start A Blog

You may be tossing around the idea of starting a blog but are intimidated by all of the blogs out there. Or you might be wondering what type of content your blog would have and if it would be relevant or interesting. If you're reading this blog today you already have the first step to getting there; interest. Blogging is a great outlet for a diverse group of people and a way to share with the community their new craft or a new item they thrifted; whatever your interest may be, starting a blog is easier than you might think.

Blog Content

The most important element of blogging is your content. Before you jump on the internet and secure a blog name and start designing it, you should think about what you will be writing about. Do you like to read and want to share your thoughts about books in your collection or notes from book club meetings? Are you a photographer who wants to share the stories behind your lens? Or do you want to write about your every day life? Most blogs fall into certain blog categories pertaining to their content. The most popular ones include Lifestyle, Photography, DIY/Crafts, Family, Fashion, and Personal. A great way to establish what type of category you might fall under is to write out your thoughts and see if any of those categories {or any other} compliment your content. Finding your niche in the community of blogging will help you in other areas later on {which we will discuss later}. You'll also want to research other blogs that have similar interests to make sure that your content is original, unique, and you. Yes, there are tons of blogs out there that are DIY/Craft or Lifestyle; whatever the category there is bound to be similar content. It's okay. But the best rule of thumb when writing is to make sure that at least 60% of the content is your own. Meaning, it is unique to you. One way to do that is to bring a little bit of your personal elements into the post, even if you don't normally share personal content. It's original to you and no one else can copy that. Remember; we want you to blog and be you at the same time!

Choosing a Name

Naming your blog can be very difficult. You'll want to make sure that what you choose not only compliments your content, but is a name that will grow with you as your blog grows. When Heidi & I started our first blogs we both had different names. I was even on an entirely different platform! So far in to blogging we both realized we jumped the gun on a name and found it didn't grow with our blogs. Switching was daunting and difficult at first, but luckily we had a steady group of readers who followed right along on our journey. But it's a process that you want to avoid, no matter how many people follow you or not. 

You'll want to choose a name that goes hand in hand with what you'll be writing about. Are you a crafter wanting to share your projects? You could play off of the tools you use or projects you make. Or are you a fashionista with a certain style that you could play off of as well? Make sure that whatever you choose, it is your own. You'll want to put in a quick Google search to make sure no one else has that name or something very similar. Even if it isn't the exact same, if most of the name is similar it will confuse readers who may be talking about your blog, but refer to the other by mistake and visa versa. You'll also want to make sure that you keep your name short & sweet. You want your readers to be able to remember your name so they can easily type it in a search engine or physically type out your URL.  Keeping it short & sweet will benefit your blog in the long run in many ways. 

Choosing a Platform

There are many platforms out there to choose from. Blogger, Wordpress, Typepad, Tumblr to name a few. 

Blogger seems to be the most popular and is an easy and free platform to use. It offers simple templates and navigation that is easily customizable as well. You can link it to your Google account which is also a bonus if a lot of blogs you follow are through Google Friend Connect. It's the best way to keep up to date on everyone else's blogs that you follow as well as making it easier for people to follow you, too. Its easy coding and template designer makes customizing a breeze, even for the non-coder. Also, if using a third party designer for your blog {which we will touch on next}, most prefer Blogger for these reasons alone, which keeps the cost down when paying for a design. It is one that I use {now} and Heidi as well. In fact, most of the contributors of this blog {and this blog included} are on the Blogger platform!

Wordpress is another popular platform. Though not as easy and customizable as Blogger because it is not self-hosted, but for a fee you can have a self-hosted blog that can be customized to your preference. If you're a basic blogger, Wordpress may not be your best choice. I switched from Wordpress to Blogger because it wasn't allowing me to be as involved as I wanted to be with my readers. You can't use GFC {Google Friend Connect}, host linky parties as easily, run a giveaway using Raffelcopter {Java Script is disabled on Wordpress unless it's self-hosted}, or have a 'grab my button' box under your blog ad. All of those elements were important to me so I made the switch. Like I said; if design and customization are important to you wanting to start a blog {which it should be}, Wordpress is not for you unless you pay to self-host.

Typepad is a great platform and is very basic like Blogger, but there is a fee to pay each month. With that fee you get designs to choose from, domain mapping, support, storage, and more; depending on which plan you choose. I don't know many bloggers who use this platform and I can't recall anyone saying anything bad about it, but they have a free 14 day trial. You could try it out and see if it is a fit for you and always cancel your trial if it doesn't work out.

Tumblr is very popular in the fashion, photography, and personal corner of blogging. J Crew actually uses Tumblr as their platform for blogging! It is really a community within its self, making it easy to share other people's posts, photos, content, etc with other Tumblr users. The only peeve I have about Tumblr is that if you want to follow a Tumblr blog {or you want someone to follow you} you have to have a Tumblr account. To me, that's just an inconvenience. But it is the simplest of platforms and a great one to choose if you fall within those categories or of the like.

Design

Now that you have your content, a name, and have chosen a platform it's time for design. No matter the platform you choose, you will have some sort of design available to you. I personally feel, though, that design is one of the most important elements in blogging next to content and that if you plan to be a serious blogger, paying a fee to get one is a piece of cake. 

When you land on someone's blog, whats the first thing you see? Their header. If you don't want to pay for a full design, paying for a header is something you might want to consider. Whether you design one yourself or pay someone to do it, keep it within the vision of your blog. Keep your content in mind and go from there. Bloggers do not want to click on a blog to see neon backgrounds against harsh colored text so keeping it light, simple, and easy to read will bring a reader back and most likely will become a follower. It's sort of like choosing a book at the bookstore or library. What do we look at first? The cover. Sadly we all judge a book by its cover and much do bloggers when it comes to blog design. But it is important. 

You'll also want to keep your sidebar{s} uncluttered. There is nothing more that I can't stand than to see a sidebar filled up with how many awards they've received, what blog hops they're participating in on top of their category lists and blog ads, and blog series they have. Utilize the 'pages' aspect of your platform and save the sidebar for your 'about me', social networking buttons, blog advertisers/sponsors, and one or two key elements of your blog. Everything else can go in a page. 

If you can't afford or don't want to invest in a design, there are templates you can use that are set up for you on each platform. Blogger gives you a little more leeway with being able to customize a template they already have, while Wordpress has loads of templates to choose from that are super cute and cool from the start, but are less customizable. 

No matter which way you go, you want to make sure that the design of the blog represents you. 

Start Blogging!

Ok so you have a name, a platform, and a design; it's time to publish that content we were talking about. Think about a first post you want to write. Do you want to do an introductory post welcoming people to your blog, giving them an insight on what to expect? Or do you want to just post out of the gate on that awesome thrift shop find you scored? Whatever the first post is, make it to the point and make it you. 

When you're first starting to blog, don't worry about trying to make a name for yourself right away. If this is your first blog, your content and vision may grow so as you blog more and more you'll be able to find that voice. One of the biggest tips I can offer is remembering why you wanted to blog in the first place. Even if your intention is to share with the community your life {whether personal or professional or everything in between}, you're still blogging for you. Over time everything else will form organically and you'll be able to find a rhythm to it all. 

Keeping with the rule of making the content your own, if you do find inspiration in other peoples posts or photos that are worth sharing, it is important to always source back. You don't want people stealing content from you, so please don't steal content from others claiming it to be your own. Blogging is a community of people trying to inspire, support, and lift up one another. We don't want it to become a vicious pool of drama as you'd see in the halls in high school. And if you're taking other peoples post and claiming it as your own, thats going against everything we are trying to share here; the whole reason behind this blog and why you are here, reading it.

Share!

Once you've hit publish on your first post, share it. If you're on Facebook, let your friends know you've started a blog. Link them to your post or tweet about it. If you plan to have lots of images in your post, you could create a board on Pinterest for your blog and pin your images to your board. Let you friends know on IG that you started a blog. Let everyone know! Sharing your posts with people that you interact with on a daily basis will be happy to share what you've written too, which makes people want to come and visit your blog to see what you're all about. Don't be discouraged if you only have a few views the first few times you publish. The more you write and the more you share, the more out there your blog will get. It takes time, but trust us; not very much time if you know how to share yourself.

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